Whenoursecondchildwasontheway,mywifeandIattendedapre-birthclassaimedatcoupleswhohadalreadyhadatleastonechild.
Theinstructorraisedtheissueofbreakingthenewstotheolderchild.Itwentlikethis:
"Someparents,"shesaid,"telltheolderchild,‘Weloveyousomuchwedecidedtobringanotherchildintothisfamily.‘Butthinkaboutthat.Ladies,whatifyourhusbandcamehomeonedayandsaid,‘Honey,IloveyousomuchIdecidedtobringhomeanotherwife.‘"
Oneofthewomenspokeupimmediately."Doesshecook???"